Three Steps to Your Dream Relationship

Do you want to settle down with one guy and just make commit to you? Why are guys so afraid of a monogamous and permanent relationship? Is there anything you can do to change the dynamic of your dating life and start a long-term relationship? Before you throw in the towel, try out these three steps with your guy and you will be able to make him commit.

1. Take away his fear.

Some guys are just afraid to establish any kind of permanency because of what they’ve experienced in their own lives while witnessing their parents’ marriage. You need to alleviate his fears and let him know how you are different, without directly telling him. You can let him know by your actions and by your offhand comments.

For example, he might think that you will gain a lot of weight after getting married and having children. You can counteract this fear by being committed to exercise and letting him see your ability to stay fit. Also, you can make a comment about how you want to stay active throughout your life and always stay in shape.

2. Let himexperience the rewards of a relationship with you.

By sending him love notes, keeping your abode clean and organized, and eating great meals; he will know that a life with you would be full of benefits. Even little errands that he has to do that you can handle for him will illustrate the convenience that comes with having a partner to go through life with. You can make him commit to you when you fully display the positives that are attached to being your boyfriend.

3. Make time apart.

Another way for him to fully comprehend how wonderful life with you would be is to give yourself time apart every now and then; it is true that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Take any chance you can to go on a trip with friends, head home to visit family, or volunteer for a work assignment out of town.

Not only will you reap the benefits of a more fulfilled life, your guy will feel what his life is like when you’re not around. Hopefully, it won’t be as fun and exciting as his life with you. Be careful not to let him think anything is wrong or that you are unhappy with the relationship, but rather let him know that you just want to go and keep up with other friends and family in your life.